Not all versions of Bedrock have the ability to add servers. You can add servers on android / tablet, IOS devices and Windows 10 Edition. Unfortunately it is a little more difficult to add servers on Xbox and PS5 but it is possible. You can follow this alternative tutorial if you’re on Xbox or PS5. If you have the “add server” feature, you can follow the easy steps below.
Click on "Add Server" at the bottom. This will bring up a screen where you can input the server details (found on the members page here) The name can be whatever you want and the port is kept as the default.
Once you've entered the server details, click "Done." This will add the server to your server list.
Back in the server list, find the server you just added. Click on the server to highlight it, then click "Join Server."
To ensure the server stays private, the IP address will change every 2 weeks. Members can find the updated IP address on the members page.This change will not reset server data or the world. Only the address to join will change. You will be notified when the IP changes on discord and the old IP's will notify you that there has been a change when you attempt to connect.
SMP Rules to Follow
No sharing IP: Sharing the IP address publicly is strictly prohibited. You are welcome to invite your friends privately.
No Stealing: Do not take items from other players chests, furnaces, or storage units without permission.
Land Respect: Do not build on or close to someone else’s build without their consent. Respect others’ territories.
No Exploits: Do not use mods, hacks, or glitches to gain an unfair advantage.
PVP Rules: Player versus player combat is only allowed if both players agree. No unsolicited attacks.
Replant: If you take crops, replant them. Respect the environment and ensure resources for everyone.
No Spamming: Do not flood the chat with messages or use caps excessively.
No Advertising: Do not promote other servers or unrelated products.
No Impersonation: Do not pretend to be someone else or mislead others about your identity.